Breaking Taboos: Discussing Sex Toys on Mainstream Dating Apps

We live in a time where people share almost everything. They talk about their mental health, bad bosses, even awkward dating fails online. But when it comes to sex toys? People suddenly go quiet. Strange, right?

Think about it. Millions of people buy them every single year. They use them, talk about them with friends (sometimes jokingly), but on dating apps? Not a word. And those apps are literally built to connect people. It feels like we are skipping a pretty big part of who we are.

Let’s be real about sexual prefenreces — good relationships need good communication. If you can’t talk about what you like or what you want to try, then intimacy already has a wall around it.

For many people, sex toys aren’t weird anymore. They are just… normal. Like having a favorite playlist or a skincare routine. And honestly, talking about them should feel just as casual as talking about music or food.

Plus, when we actually talk about this stuff, we kill so many unnecessary myths. That old belief that toys mean your partner isn’t “good enough”? Totally off. The truth is, toys often make intimacy better, not worse. Most couples who use them say it made things more exciting and more comfortable.

Dating apps already break the ice with fun questions. “Dream vacation?” “Two truths and a lie?” Why not something a little bolder?

Add optional, fun prompts like “Would you try toys with a partner?” or “Favorite way to spice things up?”

Articles or short videos that explain why toys can improve intimacy, busting all the myths.

This isn’t just about helping users. It’s smart business.

When humans sense unfastened to percentage, they spend more time on the app, send greater messages, or even inform pals to join. That means more engagement — exactly what dating apps need to stay ahead.

And honestly, any app that lets people be this open would stand out in a crowded market. It becomes “that app where you can actually be yourself,” which is powerful.

The Challenges (and Solutions)

Yes, at the beginning it'd sense awkward. People may hesitate to answer those questions. But once it becomes normal, it could make dating easier. Imagine knowing someone's comfort level before the first date. It means less guesswork and less pressure.

Sure, it’s a big move. But bold moves are what made dating apps famous in the first place.

Dating apps can spark open and respectful talks about sexual wellness, like sex toys. This helps people experience heard, understood, and greater related. And absolutely, isn’t that what relationship apps are alleged to do? Help people find real, meaningful connections?