Explore the kinky side to you, that you never knew existed

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Explore the kinky side to you, that you never knew existed 

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be under someone's sexual rule? Perhaps you have wanted to experience a sexual encounter that is more aggressive, intense, or demeaning, but hasn’t wanted to introduce that dynamic into your relationship, or you do, but you haven’t felt comfortable bringing it up. It’s ok to want to try something different from time to time, to explore your inner urges, but it’s not always easy to make it work in the bedroom.

Even if you manage to persuade your partner to participate, there is no telling that they will be able to play out the role as you desire. After all, that’s not necessarily the qualities you look for in a relationship - you chose them because of how kind they are, not how well they can demean you.

Having said that, it doesn’t mean that they can’t play along and build up an appetite for it, and this article explores some of the ways you can fulfill your fantasies in a way that works for both of you.

“With a little time, practice, and a light-hearted attitude, you can be squirming your way to a dirtier sex life and who doesn’t want a bit of that?”

First, let's look at some of the most popular kinks out there and share some tips on how you can get involved.

You have likely heard of 50 Shades of Grey, the book that popularized rough and dominant sex, and hot encounters in a hidden sexual chamber. After it became a bestseller, there was an influx of women openly saying they had always fantasized about being on the receiving end of a dark encounter, but what does this mean?

Well, let’s be clear that rough doesn’t mean violence. It means consensual and controlled aggression for play. No one is physically harmed or left feeling unsafe during or afterward.

Do You Enjoy Being Controlled

It’s also about feeling desired by the person in control, so much so that they will use force to have their way with you. It turns out there is an evolutionary foundation as to why you enjoy rough sex, but only when you feel a degree of control or voluntary loss of it.

There is an entire art dedicated to rope tying as a form of sexual control and it’s called Shibari. Shibari lets partners use a rope to seduce one another with creative tying methods. It’s not rushed, it's a drawn-out process intended to arouse the person giving up control. The rope, which is treated to make it softer than normal rope, is pulled up against you while it travels to the part of your body that will be bound.

Whatever the case, it looks and feels hot. One of the sexiest parts is the process of being untied because that is when there is the most opportunity for friction from the rope as the rope master seductively frees you.

Controlled aggression and pain

Everyone enjoys a little spanking, there’s no denying that, but what about taking it a little further? The idea here is to introduce a tolerable amount of pain and discomfort into your sexual encounters, often under the guise of punishment for disobedience. Can you see how it flows back to control and surrender? Spanking with a Kane or flog can feel sexy, especially if you don’t know where and when it will happen - of course, that means you’re blindfolded too. Did you know that your body can take 50% more pain when you’re aroused because of the endorphins? That’s why they say there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. The sensation of being spanked can last for a short while after your master has stopped, which gives you a little time to be pleasured. It’s combining these two contrasting sensations that can get your juices flowing.

Some people like to go a little further with clamping, which involves placing peg-like devices on sensitive body parts like nipples, the clitoris, or the testicles (although they can be placed anywhere). It’s especially fun if you’re tied up and unable to escape or complain without being subjected to further punishment. Can you see the theme here?

Gagging and choking are also a really popular way to enjoy controlled aggression and dominance. It ties in quite nicely with those that have a fantasy of (consensual) forced sex.

Experience Virtually to See if you like it.

So, there you have it, an intro into a new life of kink, so what are you waiting for?